Eek. I had a long argument with my dad over this the other day, but there are just some things he won't hear. He keeps telling me 'if you don't stop being so agressive [about sexist jokes etc.] you're going to turn guys down'. And I say 'I don't give a fuck'. I think the solution is treating men the way they treat us, say 'you're an arsehole' when we think they behave like arseholes and stop feeling ashamed/guilty about everything we do. It's damn hard, but let's just be ourselves and say 'fuck it'.
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Date: 2012-04-13 06:22 pm (UTC)I think the solution is treating men the way they treat us, say 'you're an arsehole' when we think they behave like arseholes and stop feeling ashamed/guilty about everything we do. It's damn hard, but let's just be ourselves and say 'fuck it'.